Menopause Is Coming

And it's not for the faint of heart!

Kris Lawson, Licensed Counselor (& Gen X'er!)

1/15/20252 min read

Women often seek therapy during menopause for various emotional, psychological, and physical reasons. Menopause, typically occurring between the ages of 45 and 55, can bring about significant changes in a woman's life, affecting her mental health and overall well-being. Some common reasons why women might seek therapy during this time include:

  1. Hormonal Changes and Mood Swings: The fluctuation in hormone levels during menopause, particularly estrogen, can lead to mood swings, irritability, anxiety, and depression. Therapy can provide support in managing these emotional ups and downs.

  2. Perimenopause Symptoms: The years leading up to menopause (perimenopause) can be just as challenging as the menopause itself, with symptoms like hot flashes, sleep disturbances, and fatigue affecting mental health. Therapy can help women cope with these physical changes that affect their emotional states.

  3. Identity and Life Transitions: Menopause marks a significant life transition. Women may experience feelings of loss or a shift in identity, particularly if they are going through changes in their family structure (e.g., children leaving home) or other life changes. Therapy can help women navigate this period of transformation.

  4. Anxiety and Depression: Some women may face increased anxiety or depression during menopause due to physical discomfort, changes in body image, or the psychological implications of aging. Therapy offers a space for processing these feelings.

  5. Relationship Issues: Changes in mood, sexual health, or family dynamics can lead to relationship strain. Therapy can help women address these issues and communicate better with their partners, family, or friends.

  6. Grief and Loss: Some women experience a sense of grief during menopause, whether it’s about no longer being able to have children or mourning the passing of their youth. Therapy can support them in processing these feelings.

  7. Coping with Stress: The cumulative stress of managing work, family, and personal health during menopause can feel overwhelming. Therapy offers tools to manage stress and develop healthy coping strategies.

  8. Sexual Health Concerns: Physical symptoms such as vaginal dryness, loss of libido, or discomfort during intercourse can affect sexual well-being. Therapy can help women address these issues, sometimes in combination with other healthcare providers like a gynecologist.

Therapy can be a valuable tool in helping women cope with the mental, emotional, and physical aspects of menopause, leading to better overall health and well-being during this phase of life. Different forms of therapy, such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, or support groups may be utilized based on individual needs.